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23 | Trusting God Beyond Human Understanding- The Book of Job

In this episode of Confidence in Your Calling, we dive into the Book of Job to explore the danger of forcing divine mystery into human logic.
Why do we automatically assume suffering must be punishment? Why do we feel the need to explain every painful situation with predictable formulas? Through Job’s devastating losses, emotional wrestling, and conversations with his friends, this episode uncovers how human reasoning can sometimes distort our understanding of God.
We will break down the tension between logic and faith… the assumptions made by Job’s friends… and the deeper message behind God’s response in Job 38–41. This conversation explores how suffering is not always a reflection of personal failure… why God cannot be reduced to human equations…  and how faith sometimes requires trusting God without receiving the answers we hoped for.
If you’ve ever wrestled with confusion, grief, unanswered questions, or the pressure to “make sense” of your pain… this episode will encourage you to release the need for complete understanding and lean into humility, trust, and the mystery of God’s wisdom.
Topics Discussed:
The deeper meaning behind the story of Job
Why suffering cannot always be explained logically
The danger of reducing God to predictable formulas
Job’s friends and the assumption that suffering equals punishment
Elihu’s role in the conversation
Trusting God beyond human understanding
Faith, grief, confusion, and spiritual humility
Proverbs 3:5 and surrendering human reasoning to God
Scriptures Referenced:
Book of Job
Proverbs 3:5
Job 38–41
Love,
 
Dawn Shurley 
 
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22 | Set Apart: The Healing of a Daughter’s Heart

In this week’s episode, we take a deep, healing look into 1 Peter 1:2 — and uncover how father wounds can quietly shape the way women relate to God as Father.
Whether you grew up with a loving father… an emotionally absent father… an abusive father… or no father figure at all… wounds can still form in the hidden places of the heart. Those experiences can affect how we receive love & protection, depth of peace, and even the truth that God intentionally chose us.
Together, we explore:• What it means to be “chosen” by God the Father• The deeper biblical meaning of “foreknowledge” as relational intimacy• How sanctification is both instant and ongoing• The difference between self-produced change and Holy Spirit transformation• Why striving exhausts us, but surrender heals us• How the Holy Spirit gently reveals wounds, heals triggers, and transforms us from the inside out• What it truly means to live in relationship with God — not as a distant visitor, but as His beloved daughter and bride (Don’t let that combo trip you up… it’s spiritual :) )
This episode is an invitation to stop striving for God’s love and begin resting in it.
If you’ve ever struggled to fully believe you are chosen, deeply loved, protected, pursued, or worthy of peace… this episode is for you.
So grab a cup of coffee, settle your heart, and join me as we marinate in the truth of God’s grace, healing, and presence through 1 Peter 1:2.
 
“God the Father chose you long ago…” — and that changes everything
 
Love,
Dawn Shurley 

21 | Do You Desire to Feel Joy Daily? Here is the KEY - You Already Have Access

In this episode, we explore how shifting our perspective—by viewing life through the lens of Scripture... changes the way we experience life... and life's challenges.
We will focus on rejoicing in all circumstances, not because life is always easy, but because of who God is and His unwavering love for us.  We will break this message into three key truths:
1. The Truth of God’s CharacterGod is faithful, loving, and keeps His promises. Even when circumstances seem unclear, Scripture shows that He is always working with purpose and for our good. Because of His character, we can trust His guidance and rejoice... even in trials.
2. The Truth About ChallengesHardships are not meaningless. According to God’s Word, trials build endurance, strengthen character, and deepen hope. God actively works through all things—both good and difficult... for the benefit of those who love Him.
3. The Gift of Free WillWe are given the choice in how we respond to life’s challenges. While it’s natural to feel frustration or pain, choosing trust, surrender, and even joy allows us to experience God’s peace and purpose more fully.
I want to encourage you to embrace a mindset of surrender... trusting that God knows the outcome and is always working behind the scenes. By grounding ourselves daily in these truths, we can shift from resistance to rejoicing, even in the midst of trials.
We close with a simple invitation: reflect on these truths each morning and observe how your perspective... and your week... begins to change.
Love you,
Dawn Shurley
 

20 | Why Do God's People Go Through So Many Trials? Being Refined in the Fire

Do you want a fresh lens on fiery trials?
In this episode, we dive into the Book of Daniel chapter 3 and the story of Shadrach, Meshach, and Abednego, who stood firm in their faith even when faced with the fiery furnace. What was meant to destroy them became the very place where God showed His power and presence.
We reflect on how life’s “fires” refine us and strengthen our faith, our character, and exposes pride in order to draw us closer to God rather than away from Him.
This episode invites you to see your trials through a new lens… not as punishment, but as purposeful refinement.
Love,
Dawn Shurley 

19 | Prayer and God's Favor Makes All Things Possible - Nehemiah

In this episode of Confidence In Your Calling, we will adventure into the powerful story of Nehemiah and what it teaches us about prayer, purpose, and perseverance in the face of opposition.
Nehemiah had "made it".  He had position, comfort, and influence. But when he heard about the broken state of Jerusalem, he didn’t ignore it… he let it move him. Instead of rushing to fix things in his own strength, he began with prayer—deep, honest, surrendered prayer. From that foundation, God orchestrated everything: the timing, the favor, and the provision.
This episode explores what it truly means to walk in step with God rather than relying on our own understanding. We will unpack how Nehemiah’s journey mirrors our own lives today...especially when we feel called to rebuild areas that are broken, whether it’s our peace, purpose, boundaries, or faith.
You’ll be encouraged to:
Pray first instead of reacting
Trust God’s timing instead of forcing outcomes
Stay focused when distractions and opposition arise
Step out of comfort and into calling
Keep building—even when it gets hard
Because just like Nehemiah, when you commit to doing God’s will, opposition will come—but so will provision, protection, and purpose.
If you’ve been feeling the weight of something broken in your life or sensing a calling you’ve been hesitant to step into, this episode is your reminder: don’t come down. Stay focused. Keep building.
What feels impossible can be restored—with God.
Grab your coffee, settle in, and let this message realign your heart.
Love,
Dawn

18 | Balancing Our Plans and God’s Will

In this episode, we explore the balance between making plans and surrendering to God’s will. Through personal reflection, scripture, and a meaningful dream, you’ll be encouraged to trust God’s guidance while still taking action in your life. If you’re facing decisions and seeking clarity, this conversation will remind you that God walks with you—guiding, redirecting, and faithfully leading every step of the way.
 
Love,
 
Dawn Shurley

17 | 3 Ways to Trust God's Wisdom Over Human Wisdom

It’s easy to rely on what we can see, calculate, and control… but God invites us into a completely different way of making decisions. In this episode, we explore what it means to align with God’s wisdom instead of leaning on our own understanding. While His way can feel uncomfortable and unpredictable, it leads to deeper peace, clarity, and purpose.
You’ll learn why human wisdom is limited, how God’s perspective is far greater, and three simple but powerful practices to help you live this out daily: pausing before decisions, filtering your thoughts through truth, and choosing obedience… even when it’s hard.
If you’ve ever struggled with uncertainty, overthinking, or trying to control outcomes, this episode will encourage you to trust that God’s wisdom is always better… and always worth following. 
Love,
Dawn Shurley 

16 | 5 Ways to Walk in Obedience to God and Reap the Blessings

Are you struggling to trust God fully or wondering how to walk in confident obedience even when it feels hard? In this powerful episode, we break down 5 simple, practical ways to walk in obedience to God and experience the peace, clarity, and blessings that come from a surrendered, God-led life.
Obedience to God isn’t about perfection or rigid rules—it’s about heart posture, trust, and daily surrender. If you’ve ever felt stuck between what you feel and what God is asking of you, this episode will help you realign your heart, strengthen your faith, and move forward with confidence.
Inside this episode, you’ll learn:
What obedience to God really means in everyday life
Why trusting God can feel difficult (especially when emotions are involved)
How to hear and follow the Holy Spirit’s guidance
5 practical, biblical ways to grow in obedience daily
The spiritual blessings of obedience, including peace, purpose, and deeper intimacy with God
Whether you’re in a season of waiting, being called to let go, or stepping into something new and uncomfortable, this episode will encourage you to trust God’s plan over your own understanding.
Love,
Dawn Shurley

15 | Discernment, Truth, and How Together They Create a Rhythm for Peace

Have you ever sensed that something wasn’t quite right, even when it seemed godly on the surface? In this episode of Confidence in Your Calling – Courageous Obedience for Christian Women, we will explore the powerful connection between the Belt of Truth and the gift of discernment, and how using them together can guide you in God’s Kingdom work.
Learn how the Belt of Truth anchors you in God’s Word, protecting you from deception and keeping your decisions aligned with His will. Discover how discernment alerts you when something feels off, sharpening your spiritual perception and helping you distinguish truth from almost-right. We will touch on personal stories, biblical insights, and practical tips for growing this spiritual “muscle” in your everyday life.
Whether you’re navigating complex situations, ministry opportunities, or everyday decisions, this episode will help you step confidently in God’s guidance, recognize the subtle cues of the Holy Spirit, and act with faith and clarity.
Tune in and strengthen your discernment, stand firm in God’s truth, and walk boldly in your calling.
Scripture referenced:
Ephesians 6:14“Stand your ground, putting on the belt of truth and the body armor of God’s righteousness.”
1 Corinthians 12:10He gives one person the power to perform miracles, another the ability to prophesy, and another the ability to discern whether a message is from the Spirit of God or another spirit.
Hebrews 5:14“But solid food is for the mature, who by constant use have trained themselves to distinguish good from evil.”
Matthew 4Jesus resists Satan in the wilderness by recognizing deception and responding with Scripture.
1 Corinthians 14:4“A person who speaks in tongues is strengthened personally, but one who speaks a word of prophecy strengthens the entire church.”
1 Corinthians 14:27-28“No more than two or three should speak in tongues. They must speak one at a time, and someone must interpret…”
1 Corinthians 14:33“For God is not a God of confusion but of peace.”
1 Corinthians 14:40“But everything should be done in a fitting and orderly way.”
For 1-on-1 Biblical Life Coaching:  dawn.shurley@gmail.com
Love, 
Dawn

14 | Do You Feel Guilt When Setting Boundaries? How to Set Boundaries with a Calm Confidence

Are boundaries actually biblical?
Many Christian women feel pressure to be constantly available, endlessly giving, and never say no, in the name of kindness. But Scripture paints a different picture. The Bible teaches that wisdom includes guarding what God has entrusted to us—our hearts, our thoughts, our peace, our nervous system, and our calling.
Boundary setting is one of those things that doesn't seem to come easy. I struggled for years with speaking my truth and setting clear boundaries... whether verbally for others to hear or internally for my personal walk with God.  
When I realized that boundary setting was actually biblical... the guilt melted away and my confidence grew in boundary setting.
In this episode, we explore the powerful truth behind Proverbs 4:23: “Above all else, guard your heart.” What does it really mean to guard your heart? And how do healthy spiritual boundaries protect both you and the people around you?
We’ll walk through biblical wisdom from Proverbs and the New Testament to understand why boundaries are not selfish—they are a form of spiritual discipline and protection.
You’ll also learn how the Armor of God acts as spiritual boundaries that guard your mind, heart, and peace against deception, pressure, guilt, and spiritual attack.
In this episode we discuss:
• Why guarding your heart is a command, not a suggestion• The difference between kindness and unhealthy access• How Jesus modeled healthy boundaries in His own life• The connection between thoughts, heart posture, and spiritual fruit• Recognizing spiritual pressure, guilt, and manipulation• Practical everyday boundaries Christian women are called to practice• How the Armor of God protects your heart, mind, and calling
You’ll leave this episode encouraged to protect your peace, stand firm in truth, and live with wisdom that keeps your heart safe.
Because boundaries are not selfish.
They are wise instruction from a loving Father.
Scripture Referenced:
Proverbs 4:23“Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it.”
Proverbs 1:5–7The purpose of wisdom and discipline.
Proverbs 4:6“Do not forsake wisdom, and she will protect you.”
Philippians 4:8Fix your thoughts on what is true, honorable, right, pure, and lovely.
1 Thessalonians 5:21“Test everything; hold on to what is good.”
Luke 5:15–16Jesus withdraws from crowds to pray.
Acts 6:1–4The apostles set boundaries and delegate responsibilities.
1 Corinthians 15:33“Bad company corrupts good character.”
Proverbs 20:3“It is to one’s honor to avoid strife.”
Galatians 6:5“For each one should carry their own load.”
Ephesians 6:10–17The Armor of God.
Romans 8:1“There is now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus.”
James 4:7“Submit yourselves to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you.”
To work 1-on-1 with me: email dawn.shurley@gmail.com to set up a free discovery call to see if we are a good fit.
Have a blessed week... with a calm heart.
Love,
Dawn Shurley